About Me

Writer, Podcast host, director, creator, audio drama enthusiast…

The most memorable day in the 1st grade was when Mrs Goto handed out smalll manilla colored journals with “JOURNAL” emblazoned across the front in the most beautiful shade of blue. 

“For 30 minutes a day, you may write whatever you like in this journal. No one will ever read it. It is your alone.”

To me, that little booklet full of blank pages might as well have been a bar of pure solid gold. 

I wrote story after story. Filled line after line. Page after page. 

I discovered a joy and a freedom I never knew possible. Yeah, I know. What does a 6 year old know about joy and freedom?

Somehow it sparked deep within me a passion, a love, a fulfilment little else in life could offer. 

Then, one day, I walked into class early to find Mrs. Goto and Mrs. Camacho (the teacher’s aid) standing at my desk…flipping through my journal. 

My journal. The journal for only my eyes. Only for me.

And they were laughing. Good laughing. Not mocking giggles, but laughs of enjoyment and pleasure. 

Then, seeing me in the doorway, they shoved the book back in my desk, closed the lid, and walked away like nothing was happeding

And I loved it. They were reading what I wrote and enjoying it. Quite the experience for a 1st grader. 

So, decades later, here I am. Writing. 

This time for all to read…and hopefully enjoy. 

Check out my projects and my blog if you like. Laugh, cry, sneer, guffaw, chucke, sniffle. Whatever you feel is fine with me. As long as you feel something. 

Drop me a line. I’d love to hear from you. 

Blogs for all to enjoy…

Beware the Warm Cozy Arms of Bitterness

Beware the Warm Cozy Arms of Bitterness

So I recently had a rather heated discussion with my son about a situation that created some tension around the Rod household. Ok, it was less a discussion and more of an argument. Not one of my proudest moments as a parent for multiple reasons. Far from perfect...

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The Myth of the Perfect Family

The Myth of the Perfect Family

The perfect family. Today or thirty years ago, it doesn't matter. They are pretty much the same. Thirty years ago, they lived across the street. The had a perfectly coiffed front yard. They drove a perfect four door family-sized sedan. Their dog was a perfectly...

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Six Reasons to Share Meals Around Your Dining Room Table

Six Reasons to Share Meals Around Your Dining Room Table

I could not believe what I was reading. Bloomberg reports that for the first time ever, as of March this year, Americans have spent more money at restaurants than at grocery stores. "Grocery stores are finding it harder to make headway with shoppers as a surge in...

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Fathers, you are never alone.

Fathers, you are never alone.

Their facial expressions tell the whole story. Their first reaction will range anywhere between subtle surprise to absolute horror. "You have how many children?!!?!" Once the initial shock subsides, their face gently slides to relief. But only for a moment before...

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Learning to Lead an Imperfect Family

Learning to Lead an Imperfect Family

Thanks for taking the time to visit Learning to Lead the Imperfect Family. I am thrilled you are here. I am a Christian husband and Dad who is still struggling to learn to love, lead, and nourish my large ( 10 in our home now, 12 overall) family for the glory of God....

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